A Tough Problem (11/2?)
So, here at the end of the school, an ugly snake has reared its head. Students aren't always kind to each other. That is a fact and to be expected. There are a few children that are "outsiders" because the "cool" kids don't really like them. (Why is this? Same old same old. You aren't fashion hip, you don't play sports as well, or you don't think like I do so you just aren't as cool as me and my friends.) But, even among friends, kids have been purposefully being MEAN. Some for examples. One boy kept walking up to another and pushing him. Why? Because he doesn't like the boy and no one will stick up for him. Several students have been caught drawing crazy ugly pictures and they writing, "This is So-and-So" and showing to others. One kid even had a birthday party and made a big deal out of inviting people, but then walked up to one boy and said, "Oh, but I am not inviting you." I just can't believe kids can be so mean to each other sometimes.
But the immediate concern is complicated. Besides the hurt feelings, it's the end of the year, and finals are coming up. People are over-sensitive and over-reacting. I am afraid that good kids are going to get in big trouble. We had a meeting with students, a meeting with the principal, and a meeting with the director. Then we had a meeting with parents that got very hot and emotional. (Go figure!!!)Then we had a long talk with students again, but with five teachers and both classes together. But, in the end the director asked for a list of "problem children" to take action against, and they were some of the best students. Ouch!
Fortunately, no one was expelled and no serious actions were taken, but their was a lot of communication. So I feel mostly good about the outcome. (I just wish it didn't have to be so tense and painful along the way.)